There is something you need to know: You deserve to be happy.
Here is something, concerning your right to happiness, that you may not know, and it is found in the saying, "Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that getteth understanding," Proverbs 3:13.
The main concern of the Bible's philosophy is the happiness of its student. To the Bible's mind, happiness is retained, or is claimed, or is experienced through both finding wisdom and getting understanding. But why? Why is it that wisdom is, to the Bible, the pre-requisite for happiness? The answer is found in the saying, "The excellency of knowledge is, that wisdom giveth life to them that have it," Ecclesiastes 7:12.
You deserve to be happy. You deserve the best human experience. You deserve to enjoy your thoughts and feelings in peace. We all, being alive, deserve this, but to have this kind of happiness, our devotional mind must first be happy.
The Bible, in the previously quoted book of Proverbs, verse thirteen, states that the happy soul finds wisdom and gets understanding. In order to "find" and "get," a field for finding and getting is implied, even like it says, "He that tilleth his land shall have plenty of bread," Proverbs 28:19.
The "field" for finding and getting wisdom and understanding is the field of our heart and mind, but if the field should be tilled, then an instrument for tilling is needed. Here is where the Bible's philosophy, and it's experience, comes in, seeing as how "the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart," Hebrews 4:12.
The instrument for tilling our thoughts and feelings for wisdom and understanding is, quite vaguely put, "The word of God." What is the "word of God"? Whatever it is, it is to cause a division within the person, encouraging a self-reflection for a resurrection. This "resurrection," being the main factor for a wisdom and understanding stirring up and maintaining love for self's character, is the key to our happiness.
The "word of God" is , as we can make out from Paul's statement in the book of Hebrews, a counsel for personal and devotional enlightenment. This enlightenment is best illustrated through the portrait of the living God's chief apostle suffering between heaven and earth.
With it written, "Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law," Galatians 3:13, and, "The strength of sin is the law," 1 Corinthians 15:56, Paul is laying out a principle for interpreting what we are seeing when observing this particular individual crucified. That crucified body, representing a religious philosophy pronouncing personal and devotional righteousness, beauty, and piety from doing handwritten religious laws, represents the annihilation of such a philosophy. This is why it says, for example, "By the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified in his sight," Romans 3:20.
Being crucified, and later reading that this body "was caught up unto God, and to his throne," Revelation 12:5, separated from the scene of its crucifixion, figuratively illustrates the existence of second and better philosophy for the conversation's conscience. This second and better philosophy is one calling into action the thoughts and the feelings for acquiring knowledge to regulate the conversation’s conscience, which is why it says, concerning the present devotional experience, "By his knowledge shall my righteous servant justify many," Isaiah 53:11.
The instrument to till the ground of our personal and devotional heart with is the understanding taught through the illustration of the living God's minister suffering crucifixion. Applying self to the philosophy contained within this illustration will, because of its ability to challenge the character, add wisdom and understanding to the person. This addition, due to it edifying self's thoughts and feelings, is what increases practical happiness, the lesson being that with devotional clarity, and with the person willingly experiencing internal turmoil from the challenging science of the Bible's wisdom, acceptance, contentment, patience, and love of self, will take place.
You deserve happiness. You deserve to be loved. But to be happy, and to be loved, we have to first love our self. So that we do not manipulate the affection of another, taking their affection to be a prescription for the love we will not first bring our self to demonstrate to its self, we have to break up the ground of our heart, challenging our beliefs and questioning our reality. The greatest route to do so, because we are not primarily natural or physical creatures, is through the mind of our personal devotional, religious, or spiritual philosophy. Doing so will enlighten us to our peculiar inward person, leading us to appreciate the character hidden within it.
So be happy. I know I want to be happy, and I do what I publicly do so that even one mind can understand that happiness isn't given, but is rather grown. We are happier when our mind is sober, so, for the sake of your human condition, grow in knowledge of the Bible's present wisdom for happiness.